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Sacred Sex: Worshipping the Goddess

I mentioned before that all sex has the potential to be sacred. Just like any other aspect of our life, we make choices to decide whether we will be conscious, sacred participants in the events that shape us, or if we will simply allow life to shift us here or there on gentle breezes and violent storms. Food, for example, can be incredibly sacred. Think about a community feast where everyone was involved in planting, growing, harvesting and preparing the food; where prayers are shared and gratitude given to each other before eating. Note the difference between this kind of food experience, and a trip all alone to McDonalds where you don’t spend one second thinking about where the food came from or the number of people who are affected by your decision to eat there. When it comes to your love life, which would you prefer – a shared moment with someone you love and adore, who will appreciate your contribution to the relationship; or a series of mindless quickies, forgotten as easily as your fast-food lunch?

Stoking the Fires

At certain times (for example during ovulation), you may find that simple breathing exercises or affirmations like the ones we have already discussed will be enough to bring about the signs of arousal in you both. Still, most women prefer to be caressed and adored before moving straight for the sacral chakra. Try caressing her hair to open her crown. Stroke her forehead, kiss her lips and her neck to warm her to your touch and open her 6th and 5th chakras. Speak with love to her about her beauty and gently touch her breasts to strike her heartstrings. Rest your face gently on her belly as you massage and stroke her thighs, and look her directly in the eyes to help mirror her energy and open her solar plexus.

Foreplay can be incredibly complex, or unbelievably simple. Try to indulge all of her senses, in one way or another, to bring about the most ecstatic experiences. Use your intuition to determine pace and pressure.

The Goddess Night

When it comes time to go beyond massage and bodily caresses, it is important that you take the time to cultivate a space of love and worship. Caressing the yoni is about honoring the Goddess in your lover, so this experience should be unhurried, unrushed, no-pressure involved. Your wife should know ahead of time that this will not lead to sex, and you should prepare yourself accordingly.

    

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